
Here is an amazing notion: children demonstrate their most natural abilities and inclinations at age three or four. What this means is that what comes most easily to your child and what she might very well find is her “right” career path later in life is the thing she likes to do right now.
Howard Gardner, a neurobiologist and educational thinker, bases his Multiple Intelligences theory on the idea that we are all naturally best at something. Gardner believes it’s the job of parents and schools to help kids find that best natural thing and get better at it. In studying the lives of notable people from all different fields, Gardner found again and again that these people were dabbling in what would later become their specialty even as preschoolers.
I’ve seen this in my own children: both of my 30-something sons are successful in work that they were interested in as small children. The son who as a four-year-old created an abstract painting of amazing beauty became an artist and designer. The son who as a four-year-old built a perfectly plumb treehouse and cooked a mean macaroni-and-cheese from scratch now has a home improvement business and cooks as a hobby. These were not things mom and dad dreamed up for these kids and made them practice. These were things they just gravitated toward… and are still doing today.
So stop and think: what were you good at or interested in as a child? Are you doing that now? Or are you waiting for time to pick that up again?
And what is your child good at?
What are her strengths and capabilities?
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